“It was all a show, so that the world could witness their so-called victory,” said Clara Merman, who was held captive in Gaza for 53 days with her sister, niece, partner and brother. On Sunday, after the release of Emily Damali, Romi Gonen and Doron Steinbrecher, Murman reflected on the ordeal and called for consideration in helping survivors recover.
Mr. Mirman told Kan11 News how Hamas staged actions during his release to create an illusion of control and protection. “Hamas told us, ‘Don’t worry, we’re protecting you.’ Will you protect us? When the crowds rush towards us?” she said.
She spoke of her long and harrowing journey home. “They pretended to protect us and escorted the group away from others. But it was all a blatant performance, for the world to see their so-called victory. ”
challenges of confinement
For Merman, the 53 days in captivity were unbearable. “53 days felt like an eternity. I can’t imagine what it’s like to endure 471 days in captivity, it’s unfathomable,” she said, referring to the hostages who were freed on Sunday.
She felt hopeful when she saw photos of recently freed women standing on their feet. “It gives me a reason to breathe,” she told Kan11 News. “But for the families who continue to wait for their loved ones, we must continue to fight. The fight must continue to the end.”
Merman also described an emotional experience at the Kerem Shalom intersection, where Israelis, including soldiers, social workers and medical professionals, gathered to support the freed hostages. “The joy was overwhelming and difficult to contain, but it was very meaningful. The three freed hostages met their mothers today at the Reims military base. It will not be easy, but it will help us It strengthens and uplifts. That’s what young women need right now,” she said.
Different experiences for men and women Reflecting on her time in captivity, Merman said the loss of freedom affects everyone equally, regardless of gender. “Confinement is a loss of freedom for everyone, regardless of gender. It is a state of inability to make decisions for oneself. That is something no one should ever have to endure.”
Still, she acknowledged that there are differences in how men and women deal with confinement. “After I was released, my partner and his brother were relieved to know that we women were home. Men tend to act as if they are invincible. They “For someone, it must feel different than for a woman,” she said.
Mr. Murman offered heartfelt advice to the families of the freed hostages. “Everything needs to be done with care. We are strong and supportive people, and we give a lot of love and warmth. But it needs to be in small doses. Too much love and care at once. Don’t overwhelm them. Wait for them to set the pace and ask what they need.”
She also called on the media to approach the rehabilitation of survivors with care. “Exposing them to the horror of what happened on October 7, 2023 must be done gradually, whether they even realize how many family members and friends they lost that day. We need to introduce them to reality with sensitivity,” she concluded.
